Thursday, March 12, 2009

Birthdays and Bullys

It has been so long since I lasted posted! Despite Kim feeding me post ideas (thanks btw Kimbo) I just haven't had it in me. But now I have a real moral dilemma and I'm hoping that by writing about it I will trust I have made the right decision.
My baby is sooooo popular!!! Yes that actually is my problem...in a way. Everyone is popular in Kindergarten. Everybody loves everybody! Ahhh don't you wish it would just stay that way? I swear I will not know what to do if (or should I say when) Bella gets bullied, cuz we all get if from time to time. Allow me to apologize in advance to the children who bully her, and their parents. Actually, I did mean to beat up your child, I don't take it back, but I'm sorry I left so many bruises! There that's out of the way! But now I've distracted myself. My problem is not bullying in the schools. Here's my problem. Bella was invited to 2 birthday parties on the same day at the same time!! Girl number one got her invites out 2 days before the other, but girl number two came to Bella's birthday party, and girl number one didn't. Bella will be so sad to miss either one, but she can't do both because Shane and I will be at work and can't be running her around town. So after thinking about it I've decided to send her to girl number two's party but get both girls a gift. Also, I have to admit, I'm afraid that girl number two won't have that many people show up because her invites weren't out first. I think I made the right choice. Didn't I? It became so complicated when Bella gained a social circle. Can't wait till middle school where everybody hates everybody! Big sigh...

1 comment:

going gordon said...

I know what you mean! Kids create issues that you could NEVER create in your imagination. It is a really drag that they don't come with a manual. I really resent that!! Good luck and let me know what happens. I know Bella is popular at our house...